“We do not learn from experience; we learn from reflecting on experience.” – John Dewey.
Most of us want to do things right and we do! However, at times things simply do not go to plan for a variety of reasons. Don’t I know it!
By looking back on my actions and outcomes in a certain context or a specific task, I can measure how successful or not the results were and make improvements and adjustments for next time. Importantly, I can answer the question ‘What can I do differently to achieve a different or improved result in the future?’
The value of this thinking is that positive and negative experiences resulting from actions, judgements, decisions or emotional responses are rich with information for improvement, understanding of what went well and what did not go so well. Over time (and it has taken a while!) I have learnt to apply purposeful and structured reflection and inquiry allowing me to gain insight and appreciation of a challenge of issue at hand which has led to improved understanding and better outcomes when lessons learnt are applied in the future.
In this article, I share insight into learning from reflection and a simple five step process (tried and tested on myself and during supervisory, mentoring and coaching conversations) to get you started.
Regardless of your learning style, reflective learning is for everyone. Learning from experience is great, but when coupled with intentional reflection you can uncover and articulate the key lessons learnt during the experience. Reflection and insight helps to build the ability to achieve a goal through self-leadership, self-confidence and self-efficacy.
BUT, reflective learning is one of the most underutilised and overlooked learning mechanism largely attributed to a range of reasons, including:
The truth is, reflecting on lessons learnt is incredibly powerful, and the time spent now on reflection is time well spent and time saved in the future.
A simple approach and template to understand and document lessons learnt
Enjoy this quick and easy way to process your lessons learnt. First, think back to the experience you want to reflect on and complete the following steps:
Step 1 Set the scene – document the event
Think about the following questions about the event, challenge or issue. Be sure to be factual, objective and non-judgmental:
Step 2 – Detail what you think should have happened
Consider the following questions:
Step 3 – Compare and contrast
Reflect on steps 1 and 2, detail what you have learned about:
Step 4 – Detail your lessons learnt Based on your key learning points from Step 3, think about the following:
Step 5 – Detail an action plan Review what you have written and document your plans and actions.
Detail what you can do to sustain, change or improve performance or the approach in the future across the following themes:
So how do you encourage reflective learning for yourself or when working with others?
I use the following simple approaches:
Make time for it:
Make it feel as natural as possible:
Ensure the thought process is natural, not forced and flexible to allow you to stray from the questions or script, particularly if you are developing insight and you are heading off on a tangent. This should be encouraged!
Record or journal your thinking
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Penny Ward is a coach, mentor and consultant working with women to create genuine learning alliances to develop their skills and self-leadership capabilities enabling them to lead with intention and authenticity to influence and achieve their goals and aspirations. She specialises in female self-leadership, women’s mentoring and strategic organisational development initiatives. Working collaboratively with individuals, entrepreneurs and organisations Penny empowers women through their own journey of professional and personal discovery, transformation and growth.